I like to work-out party drink stay active watch a movie at home spend time with family!!! Hahahahaha we are not perfect and do not expect the same. Of course to pleasure you see most guys are in it just to get some but it's more fun to play and watch a woman get hers first then play again if one sets his sites on pleasing himself there is no control the control cums from asking and playing with her clit and watching her tits bounce at the same time!