But cleanliness and presentation are important. I'm looking for decent all around woman arent we all a friend and as well as a lover some one at least semi compatable with my personality.wich is slightly off beat.must have a good sense of humor.ya gotta be able to laugh at all the bullshit in life.not into liars or head cases.dont need no bs in my life.a friend with benefits leading to something more is cool with me.